Skin to bone.


  Summer may be hitting Australia soon, and I thought this topic was appropriate: modesty. Yep, showing skin and how we all feel about that. That's usually something most teenagers would not dare to discuss due to potential failure to abide by what they preach. I'll take a risk.

  As of the 21st century, females (particularly of my age group) have been more comfortable to show off their figures. Now, I definitely don't think that's at all a bad thing as we are young and experimental; if you've got it, why not flaunt it? But the rule I follow again is: everything is better in moderation. The amount of skin in an outfit would be more tasteful rather than skimpy if there was a balance. For instance, I do wear shorts a lot. And I mean a lot. To make up for that, I try to cover up on top (unless it's boiling hot). The same applies with other pieces of clothing. Jeans can be paired with a crop top, for a fun silhouette. I'm not saying this is how we should all dress - everyone surely has different preferences and that's completely fine - but it's one thing to take into account when doing so.

  Having grown up in Australia, the land defining heat basically, it's no surprise that we're not clothed in layers. However, it's also not a surprise that we're not walking around nude. (Though, some girls my age are barely clothed but that isn't the point haha.) It seems the hot climate, confidence with my body, century of acceptance and individuality are factors as to why I dress the way I do. I'm alright wearing crop tops, shorts, tank tops etc. It's interesting because I dress for myself, for the occasion, yet I worry about receiving attention from the wrong people. (You know what I mean? We girls have to keep vigilant whilst in public.) However, there is one thing I very much do not enjoy wearing which without a doubt, goes to test all my beliefs.

  Bikinis. It seems that they're the universal choice of swimsuits for teenage girls - here, at least. You know what? That sucks. I mean, I like them. They can look great, especially when in a neat print or design. Sadly it seems that all girls - even I, admittedly - have resorted to as an easy option. Let's be honest: have you ever worn something you didn't want to, but seemed to match society's standards? Do not mistake me, this is not a rant about society; just disappointment expressed towards how we happen to lose ourself in it (at times). It's true that most people would consider one frumpy if they weren't daring enough to bare it all. It's funny though because bikinis are basically strips of waterproof cloth that could pass off as fancy underwear, yet it's totally fine for people to parade around in. Why is this so?


  I also stumbled across this speech on Youtube by Jessica Rey, regarding 'The Evolution of the Swimsuit'. She mentions some interesting points, and I'd love to know what you think on three things: Do you think you dress modestly? How do you feel about it? And what thoughts do you have regarding Jessica's words?

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14 comments:

  1. Such a well written post Rachel! I totally agree about most of this.
    But I also believe that women should be allowed to wear what they like without being potential victims of serious things like rape, etc.
    I need to watch the video when I get home
    ps. i like your TJG reference xxx

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    1. Definitely, it's such a shame though that it is stil an evident problem today. Thanks for the lovely comment as per usual xx

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  2. I think everyone should just dress how they want but it's a bit inappropriate for twelve year olds to wear revealing clothes. I also think you should do my essays haha!

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    1. Mhm, age is a factor too. I'm flattered haha ;)

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  3. I think you've made some very valid points here. It rains about 90% of the year here in the UK, so we don't really have a bikini friendly culture. I also think that the cost of bikinis (At least where I am!) is absolutely extortionate :3 The amount of material that you're buying is minimal, and yet they are so expensive. It's nuts haha:)

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    1. Exactly! It's such a weird concept, considering we only ever pull them out like twice a year. (For me at least.)

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  4. I go by your same clothing principles, you gotta balance the skin exposure.
    And though in my place is totally fine to wear bikinis and go topless, even now I avoid going to crowded beaches, or I'll wear waterproof shorts over my bikini bottom. "We should be free of wearing what we want" isn't working anymore... we're going downhill modesty-wise, soon enough it wont even be shocking to see girls flaunting thongs and bare breasts in public...

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    1. You make an agreeable point, it's like some girls don't even respect the privacy of their bodies. Bare-it-all isn't exactly the way to go, ugh.

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  5. I agree! I feel like you have to wear a bikini because you shall show skin, but then they blame you from not having the figure. and I don't have the thigh gap long legs, so i don't feel comfortable in shorts, which is pretty dumb. but to show skin you are being pressured to diet.

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    1. I think comfort-wise, regarding your own body, we should be allowed to wear what you want as Andrea said. But I get how nowadays there's the common flaunting of skin; if you don't feel comfortable however, don't do it. If you're not confident, then pretend you are and seriously own it. I sound so Tyra Banks right now but I think one of the key parts of achieving confidence is to fake it till you make it.

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  6. Yeah I don't get how waterproof bits of fabric is socially acceptable but walking around in underwear would not hmm. But I really liked this post it keeps me in check about what's not really right rather than what others make me believe is right. Really liked this video/post! :)

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    1. Might be a reason I'm not looking forward to summer :p
      And I'm glad I was able to put some things into perspective. Thanks for the feedback!

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  7. I'm all for girls doing what ever they want but yeah I definitely agree that not all girls feel comfortable with wearing bikinis but force themselves to learn how to be comfortable. Which doesn't make sense at all, why do you need to force yourself??? Wear what you want, if it's a bikini then fine, but if you're wearing because you feel like it's expected of you then don't.

    I think a girl can wear a bikini if she would feel comfortable about wearing undergarments in public in the same manner because essentially the two are the same. If a girl can't wear undergarments in public it means she still hold modesty dear and still very much care about how she comes off to other - meaning she feels the same about a bikini. The bikini was invented buy a man selling lingerie for god sake.

    Some girls may argue that a bikinis are just convenient but in my opinion it is not. I've watch my friends wear bikinis and how their bits and bobs play slip and slide. Small boobs and big boobs.

    If a girl still strongly believe in wearing bikinis then by all means do. I'm not one to judge or anything. However if any girl who comes across arguments like this and somewhat identify when the message of modesty, I hope they see that bikinis are not necessary.

    agreeing with you *thumbs up

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    1. It's definitely a hard topic to have a solid stance on, but as you've proved, there are conflicting views surrounding it. And yes, fidgeting around with a bikini has got to be one of the most embarrassing things. I saw your one piece swimsuit from your beach post, and it goes to show that girls can look stunning even without showing skin.

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